Thursday will be my first holiday officially divorced. The last few months have provided me an opportunity to truly reflect on my life. Amid the uncertainty of the future, I have so much for which to be grateful. But for a few minutes, I will have a bitter Thanksgiving before reminding myself of the better Thanksgiving I will be celebrating with my daughter (and without, politely put, the “big turkey” or any of the extra trimmings).
I know finding my true self is one blessing that has come out of this divorce. To quote from Twitter,
"Sorry, I’m not Adele. I don’t wish the best for you nor do I want to find someone like you."The journey was bitter. But I was urged to confidently continue and felt empowered because of loved ones, indulgent meals and music. Bitterness accomplishes nothing. But this past resentment made me the person I am today. So for a few minutes come Thursday, I will play the music that helped me define who I am and get me through the heartache.
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Don't forget the gay anthem - "freedom" by George Michael. It was always my go-to during break ups...and also just when I want to dance!
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and Amara this Thanksgiving!